How is behavior altered? In his book The Social Animal, David
Brooks notes that some experts have said people just need to be taught the
long-term risks of bad behavior. For example, he writes: “Smoking can lead to
cancer. Adultery destroys families, and lying destroys trust. The assumption
was that once you reminded people of the foolishness of their behavior, they
would be motivated to stop. Both reason and will are obviously important in
making moral decisions and exercising self-control. But neither of these
character models has proven very effective.” In other words, information alone
is not powerful enough to transform behavior.
As Jesus’ followers, we want to grow and change spiritually. More than
two millennia ago, Jesus told His disciples how that can happen. He said,
“Abide in Me, and I in you. As a branch cannot bear fruit of itself, unless it
abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in Me” (John 15:4). Jesus
is the Vine and we, His followers, are the branches. If we’re honest, we know
we’re utterly helpless and spiritually ineffective apart from Him.
A change in behavior begins with God changing our heart. (RBC)