My friend Jeff was asked by his daughter to officiate at her wedding.
This would be a great joy as they traveled to an exotic and romantic location
for the ceremony. But there was one major problem—because the wedding party was
very small, Jeff would have to perform three separate roles that could be in
conflict. He would be the officiating minister, the father of the bride, and
the wedding photographer!
Have you ever felt as if you were wearing too many hats? Jethro thought
his son-in-law Moses was (Ex. 18). Leading the Israelites, arbitrating personal
disputes, and handing down legal judgments for a great multitude was taking its
toll. Finally, Jethro approached Moses, telling him: “This thing is too much for
you; you are not able to perform it by yourself” (v.18). He wisely counseled
Moses to delegate smaller disputes to other advisors and take the more
challenging cases himself (v.22).
Whether you’re a mother with small children, an overwhelmed business
executive, or an overworked church volunteer, you too can take a lesson from
Moses. Why not prayerfully discern if there may be tasks you can delegate to
others or even discontinue—so that you don’t wear yourself out.
If we don’t come apart and rest awhile, we may just plain come apart! (RBC)