Years ago
I was a camp counselor for some rebellious boys. I found it challenging to deal
with their behavior. They would mistreat the animals at the petting zoo and
occasionally fight among themselves. So I adopted a calm and firm approach to
leading them. And although they often exasperated me, I always made sure their
physical needs were taken care of.
Even
though I had a kind and loving exterior, I often felt on the inside that I was
just “putting up with them.” That caused me to prayerfully reflect on how a
loving heavenly Father provides for His rebellious children. In telling the
story of the Israelites during the exodus, Paul said, “For a time of about
forty years [God] put up with their ways in the wilderness” (Acts 13:18). In
Greek “put up with” most likely means to patiently provide for people’s needs
despite an ungrateful response.
Some
people may not react favorably to our efforts to show care and concern. When
this happens, it may help to remember that God is patient with us. And He has
given us His Spirit to help us respond with love to those who are hard to love
or who are ungrateful (Gal. 5:22-23).
Give us
Your patience, Lord, for anyone in our lives who is difficult to love.
Be as
patient with others as God has been with you. (RBC)
