In 1
Samuel, we read that the high priest Eli sometimes looked the other way. We
don’t know what he was like as a father when his boys were young. But he failed
to properly deal with their behavior as grown men serving in God’s temple. They
were selfish, lustful, and rebellious, putting their own needs ahead of God’s
Word and the needs of the people. At first, Eli rebuked them but they would not
listen. Instead of removing them from service, he looked the other way and let
them continue in their sin. As a result of his sons’ sins and because Eli
honored his sons above the Lord (1 Sam. 2:29), the Lord warned Eli that his
family would suffer judgment (v.34; 4:17-18).
As
Christian parents, we have the awesome responsibility to lovingly discipline
our children (Prov. 13:24; 29:17; Heb. 12:9-11). As we impart God’s wisdom to
them, we have the blessing of helping them develop into responsible,
God-fearing adults.
Failure
to discipline our children is a failure to love them. (RBC)
