If
someone wanted to conduct a research project at your home, would you
participate if you knew that your every syllable would be recorded and
analyzed? What would the study reveal? Proverbs 18 offers insight about some
unwise speech patterns. The writer notes that foolish people express their own
opinions instead of trying to understand what others have to say (v.2). Does
this characterize us? Do we sometimes provoke fights with our words (v.7), or
speak impulsively and “answer a matter before [hearing] it”? (v.13).
We need
to become students of our speech. With God’s help we can identify and transform
destructive dialogue into words of encouragement that are “good for necessary
edification” and that “impart grace to the hearers” (Eph. 4:29).
Our words
have the power to build up or tear down. (RBC)