It erupts. It melts everything in its path. Its blast is as powerful as
a nuclear explosion! Well, maybe not—but a temper can feel as intense as
a volcano when it is aimed directly at another person in a family. The moment
may be quickly over, but it can leave emotional devastation and bitter feelings
behind.
It’s sad that the people we love the most are often
the target of our hurtful words. But even when we feel we’ve been provoked, we
have a choice. Will we respond in anger or in kindness?
The Bible tells us to rid ourselves of bitterness
and anger, and to “be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one
another, even as God in Christ forgave you” (Eph 4:32).
If you are struggling
with chronic anger that is hurting your relationships, surrender this
vulnerable part of your emotions to Christ’s strength (Phil. 4:13). Ask God to
forgive you for an uncontrolled temper and to show you how to moderate your
emotions and to teach you how to honor others above yourself (Rom 12:10).
Seek out help from others to learn how to deal with your strong emotions in
appropriate ways.
As we earnestly seek to
love others and to please God, we can win the victory over a volcanic temper.
Losing your temper is no way to get rid of it. (RBC)
