You may have heard the adage, “Timing is everything.” According to the
Bible, good timing applies to our words and speech too. Think of a time when
God used you to bring a timely word to refresh someone, or when you wanted to
speak, but it was wiser for you to remain silent.
The Bible says that there is an appropriate time to speak (Eccl. 3:7).
Solomon compared properly timed and well-spoken words with golden apples in a
silver setting—beautiful, valuable, and carefully crafted (Prov. 25:11-12).
Knowing the right time to speak is beneficial for both the speaker and hearer,
whether they are words of love, encouragement, or rebuke. Keeping silent also
has its place and time. When tempted to deride, belittle, or slander a
neighbor, Solomon said that it is wise to hold our tongue, recognizing the
appropriate time for silence (11:12-13). When talkativeness or anger tempts us
to sin against God or another human being, resistance comes by being slow to
speak (10:19; James 1:19).
It’s often hard to know what to say and when to say it. The Spirit will
help us to be discerning. He will help us use the right words at the right time
and in the right manner, for the good of others and for His honor.