As a college student, I heard count-less engagement stories. My
starry-eyed friends told about glitzy restaurants, mountaintop sunsets, and
rides in horse-drawn carriages. I also recall one story about a young man who
simply washed his girlfriend’s feet. His “modest proposal” proved he understood
that humility is vital for a lifelong commitment.
The apostle Paul also understood the significance of humility and how it
holds us together. This is especially important in marriage. Paul said to
reject “me-first” urges: “Let nothing be done through selfish ambition” (Phil. 2:3).
Instead, we should value our spouses more than ourselves, and look out for
their interests.
Humility in action means serving our spouse, and no act of service is
too small or too great. After all, Jesus “humbled Himself . . . to the point of
death, even the death of the cross” (v.8). His selflessness showed His love for
us.
What can you do today to humbly serve the one you love? Maybe it’s as
simple as leaving brussels sprouts off the dinner menu or as difficult as
helping him or her through a long illness. Whatever it is, placing our spouse’s
needs before our own confirms our commitment to each other through Christlike humility.
If you think it’s possible to love your spouse too much,you probably haven’t loved enough.
(RBC)
